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Saturday, March 7, 2020

Bye Bye Starship- Hello Home Again!!! WOO HOO!!!


Hi Everybody.

WO HOO - I’m delighted to report that we brought Ashling home from hospital yesterday afternoon. She had managed to stay off oxygen for 24 hours and so she was allowed to go home. We are absolutely thrilled to be home and for our family to be back together. Our little Dog, Patch, has not stopped wagging her tail since we arrived. So cute. Ash is settling back into her bed in her room, although she will be spending a lot of time in our La-Z-Boy chair in the sitting room. We have a plan for her home physio for now to get Ash moving and to make sure she gets plenty of rest post-surgery. So, we are keeping things very quiet for now.

The week after next we will start doing a block of physio for six weeks and this will help Ash get back on her feet properly. We will either do this at the Wilson Centre in Takapuna or at Starship hospital.


Ash has a spinal appointment in six weeks’ time for a follow-up to check her wounds and do some x-rays. I will post pictures of these. In the meantime, this is a picture below that we got from her surgery. We can see a big difference already in her back and in her neck, which is amazing. But because she is quite sore, it is difficult for her to stand up straight so far, but that will all come soon with time. We are managing to stay on top of her pain mostly, with a rigid medicine regime and this will all lighten over the next few weeks.

We are incredibly grateful for the journey that we have had, everything pretty much going according to plan. Even though it was very hard at times, we never got too overwhelmed and felt supported throughout. We are so appreciative for all the love, prayers, gifts, dinners, baking and even the incredibly generous yogi- money collection for Ash- Honestly, I just get emotional thinking about how kind people have been and how loved we have felt. Thank you all so much. 🙏🙏🙏


Over the next few days, we will put together a post from Ashling once she’s feeling up to it. ❤️ XXX





Thursday, March 5, 2020

Day 8 Post Op- Home is calling......

I'm delighted to report that Ash has turned the corner!!!! The Drs have taken her off the big drugs that were causing her so much heartache (literally!!! She has bad chest pain!) and put her onto easier medications for her little body to deal with.
Today she's back to herself and getting a bit stronger. We took her off oxygen this morning and so far today, she has been holding her own. They are continue to monitor her and if she manages to stay off oxygen for 24 hours, rumour has it- SHE"LL BE GOING HOME TOMORROW!!!!

And if she doesn't manage that- well at least we know it should be our last weekend in Starship.

PHEW- we are more than ready to go home!

Thanks everyone for sharing this journey with us :) XXXX

Tuesday, March 3, 2020

Day 6 Post-Op


Hi Everybody.
Our brave Ash is continuing to do okay at the hospital. The Drs have been finding it a bit difficult to get on top of her pain and she is still requiring oxygen and needed a second blood transfusion today, so it hasn’t been too easy for her.
But at the same time, she is making steps towards home every day, so to speak. Her physio consists of getting out of bed, standing, sitting in a chair for a while and doing a little bit of walking with the aid of a walker. For the last four days on the ward, each day she has progressed a little more. 👍She is still in pretty good spirits most of the time but has found these last few days harder due to pain and cabin fever we think. Her blood transfusion today started at 2pm and finished at 10:15pm so that was enough to send anyone around the twist!
Anyway, we still feel that going home is in the near future because she has less attachments every day, and we are slowly weaning her off oxygen!
Please keep up all the wonderful prayers and good wishes. I cannot tell you how much we appreciate them. Sending love to you all XXX